About Victoria
Hi, I’m Victoria McCooey!
I’m a Narcissist Divorce Coach, a Motivational Speaker and the creator of the Reclaim Your Power System™.
I help my clients overcome the pain, fear and overwhelm caused by an abusive spouse by helping them escape their victim mentality and opening their minds to the amazing possibilities available.
By following my proprietary system, you too can reclaim your power so you can make the life-altering decisions you’re facing from a place of strength instead of from a place of fear. Then together, we’ll develop a step-by-step plan for creating the life you’ve been dreaming of.
How do I know so much about getting out of an abusive situation?
Well, aside from being a certified life coach, I went through my own drastic transformation.
I was in an abusive marriage and didn’t even realize it. For 10 years, I was a victim of my husband’s verbal, emotional, psychological and financial abuse. Then, one day, as I was walking away from an argument, he came from behind and choked me. Once his abuse turned physical, I knew I had to leave.
But I was petrified. A decade of psychological torture had taken its toll on me. I was emotionally and physically weak. I didn’t know how I could get through what certainly was going to be a long, difficult battle. I didn’t know how I’d be able to care for our three small children and co-parent with a bitter and vindictive (and dangerous) ex-husband. But I knew I had to figure it out — fast. So I started doing some research.
I learned everything I could about health and wellness, about money management, about the laws around divorce and about the narcissistic personality disorder that was responsible for my husband’s abusive behavior.
Then I went deeper. I started exploring how to change my own limiting beliefs that had led me to become a victim, how to destroy the blocks that were holding me back, how to step into my new role as head of household, and how to attract into my life all the things I’d ever wanted.
It took six years for my divorce to be final. Six long, brutal, excruciatingly painful years of lawyers, courtrooms, forensic psychologists, custody battles, law guardians, kidnappings, expert witnesses, foreclosures, financial crises, property sales, child support enforcement proceedings, and a litany of other horrific issues. But, by the end of it, I had undergone a complete transformation. I was no longer the weak, insecure victim that was choked by her husband. I had emerged as a strong, empowered, capable, intuitive and successful woman whom my sons could look up to. I am now living a life that’s better than I could have imagined, complete with a loving husband and two amazing stepdaughters.
And this is what I want for you: a life beyond your wildest dreams.
I’ve dedicated my life to making this happen for my clients. It can happen for you, too.
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