Is your marriage healthy or abusive?

Is your marriage healthy or abusive?

If you’ve been emotionally or psychologically battered, you may not be able to tell. This checklist may give you a different perspective. I didn’t realize how unhealthy my first marriage was. (First of all, let me say that the picture above is of me with my new...
Get into divorce-winning shape

Get into divorce-winning shape

Take this quiz to learn what you need to do to get in the physical and mental condition required to finish strong. Divorce is a long and difficult journey. You need to be in top shape to go the distance without running out of energy and focus. Do you want to drag...
5 ways to save on your divorce lawyer

5 ways to save on your divorce lawyer

My best tips on how to slow the hemorrhaging of money and make that retainer check last longer. Maybe you’re in an amicable divorce and the two of you have agreed to preserve your family’s finances by hiring a mediator. Lucky you. But if you’re like most people going...
Getting Rid of Shame

Getting Rid of Shame

Some people feel shame about their divorce. You’d think in this day and age where 40-50% of marriages end in divorce, there would no longer be any shame attached to it. But it still exists. Dr. David Hawkins in his 1995 book, Power vs. Force: The Hidden Determinants...
How Can Hiring a Divorce Coach Save You Money?

How Can Hiring a Divorce Coach Save You Money?

Seems completely counter-intuitive, right? How hiring ANOTHER expert — when you’re already forced to pay for a matrimonial attorney, a law guardian, a forensic accountant, maybe even an appraiser or child psychologist — could save you money. I mean, if no one is...