Rate Your Divorce Skills: Take This Quiz

Rate Your Divorce Skills: Take This Quiz

How well are you divorcing? Is it taking a toll on you physically? Emotionally? Financially? How are you handling communication with your ex-spouse? And what about co-parenting? How’s that going? And your lawyer…what’s that relationship like? Are your bills higher...
On Surrounding Yourself With Your Tribe

On Surrounding Yourself With Your Tribe

I just returned from a 4-day coaching conference, and want to share with you my biggest takeaways.      1.  Sitting in a conference room chair for 4 straight days wreaks havoc on your body.         Who knew that not doing anything makes you more sore than working out?...
Making Lemonade

Making Lemonade

When I was suffering through my own divorce, I didn’t see a bright side. All I could see was wounded children, a vengeful ex, insurmountable bills, isolation and fear, vacation days spent in courtrooms, guilt and depression. It wasn’t until many years later that I...
Joint custody with a jerk

Joint custody with a jerk

Co-parenting with someone you’re in a contentious legal battle with? There’s no manual for that. Sure, you should put your personal feelings aside and do what’s best for the kids. But if he’s not doing that as well, then you’re just a doormat. How do you stand up for...
How can I afford a divorce coach?

How can I afford a divorce coach?

You may think hiring a divorce coach is a luxury you just can’t afford. You’re already up to your eyeballs in new and unexpected expenses: lawyers, law guardians, forensic psychologists, accountants, appraisers. How could you possibly afford to hire one more expert?!...